Today my article about ||relationship between husband and wife||
The relationship between husband and wife is not protected by love but by "method". And most people ruin even the right relationship by doing the wrong thing.
1️⃣ First thing:
| Own your spouse. This does not mean that you should assert your rights over him, but that you should be the guardian of his honor. His weaknesses, his mistakes, these should remain between the two of you. |
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After every quarrel, going to friends, family or other gatherings and spoiling your spouse's image makes your marital relationship lighter.
2️⃣ Second thing:
| Having a quarrel is not the problem not handling the quarrel is the problem There are two ways out after every fight Either you save your ego or the relationship. Wise couples do not think that I am right every time. They think that 'we' should be right. |
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3️⃣ Third thing:
| You are both a team The problem should be in front of you not in front of each other in a quarrel Whenever something goes wrong, don't think that it's because of him Think about how we can fix it together. |
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| Your partner should be sure that he is your top priority and that this relationship is of the utmost importance to you This will make the foundation of your relationship so strong that you will both be able to successfully face even the biggest storm. |
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4️⃣ The fourth thing that is often ignored:
| Never damage your partner's self-respect. Especially in anger. Words don't come back. And there are some sentences that are forgiven but remain somewhere inside and become a reason to weaken the relationship. |
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If you really want to see this relationship strong, then make it a rule that I will never intentionally show my partner down.
5️⃣ The fifth and most important thing:
Prayer.
People go everywhere to save a relationship, except to Allah.
| Pray for your spouse, pray for your relationship. Pray to Allah to make you both a means of achieving good for each other. |
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| You did not choose this relationship yourself. It was chosen by Allah for you. So treat it as if it were a trust. |
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And finally…
| In Islam, husband and wife are described as each other’s “clothes”. |
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What does clothing do?
It conceals honor
It protects
It adorns
It gives comfort
| If you truly understand the essence of this relationship, you will become such a garment for your spouse that neither his weakness will be exposed nor his honor will be diminished by you. The relationship will not only be successful but also safe. |
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