💔 Why do girls run away from home? 💔

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The doll left home when she was barely eighteen or nineteen years old. A few hours later, when the news broke, there was chaos in the house… The parents were sitting with their heads held high, the brothers went out in search with weapons. Friends' houses were visited, every door was knocked on… But the doll was not found.

The doll, who left in broad daylight saying “I am going to my friend’s house”, did not return even in the darkness of the night.

In a few days, the infamy was at its peak…
The father’s back bent, anger started burning in the eyes of the brothers, the hearth of the house went cold…
The mother sometimes yearned for her daughter, sometimes cried at the humiliation of her sons…

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But there was another character in this story… Doll’s younger sister…
Who had been married, had dreams of happiness… But this one step of the doll took everything away.
The marriage was stopped… and in response, the “divorce” papers came in hand…
The girl who had henna on her hands, silently became a divorcee…

The peace of the house was shattered…
The father was broken… The brothers’ anger increased…
One brother even said: “If I have a daughter, there will be no room in this house…”

And the pregnant sister-in-law kept praying for a son…

Years passed…
Where is the doll? No one knows…
The parents are silent… As if the words have run out…
And that divorced sister is still there… With empty hands, with one word on her forehead: “Divorced”…

Sometimes the heart asks…
What happens when a girl leaves her loving, nurturing parents and goes with a stranger?

How does she leave an entire world…?

If you look for an answer, many reasons come to mind…
Distance from religion, delay in marriage, influence of media, strict restrictions, lack of attention, misuse of freedom, or blind trust in just one person…

But one question still remains…
When you don’t trust your family… how can you trust a stranger?

The truth is that just as a balance of heat is necessary when cooking pulao, a balance of love and understanding is necessary in raising children…
Sometimes gentleness, sometimes guidance… So that they do not stray, do not feel alone…

🌸 Message for parents:

Don’t just give restrictions to your children, understand their hearts too, listen to them…

🌸 Message for girls:

I admit that person loves you… But don’t be selfish that one of your mistakes will burn the lives of others…
Leaving home is never a solution…
Talk, explain, confide in an elder… But for God’s sake, don’t take a step that will become a regret for the rest of your life…

✨ I wish this would reach your heart…
✨ Maybe one step will stop…