I think the word relationship has different meanings in terms of its meaning, quality, and meaning. Relationship is one, it is different for each person. Some consider it just a rule of society, while others consider it a part of life and a means of growing their generation. Others find a way to survive in it, consider it a peace of mind, and promise to be together in this world and the hereafter. Real peace or happiness in a relationship does not come from just having money, looks, or prestige. Happiness or peace in a relationship comes from understanding, liking, loving, and adapting to all situations. But looking at the current world, it can be seen that everyone is only after a beautiful face and wealth. Where neither wealth nor appearance is permanent. When marriage or a relationship is formed based on this wealth and appearance, most of the relationships break down after a few days. Even divorces occur. In the present time, the survey has shown that the amount of delay in marriage is high, which is all due to our lust and greed for wealth and unimaginable needs.

The biggest problem in the present time is in marriage. When a boy wants to get married or when he becomes an adult, the girl's parents first see whether the boy is in a government job, whether the boy has wealth, and then agree to the marriage. But they do not judge even once whether the boy is honest, how is his behavior, whether he commits any crime, how is the behavior of his family members. There is no question about these. As soon as the boy gets a government job, they forcefully get the girl married. Many times the girl does not agree, but the boy also gets married if he sees a beautiful girl, he does not feel the need to know the girl's opinion, and gets married. I think these marriages are done only because of looks and physical needs. As a result, a rift appears in the relationship after a few days. Happiness does not exist only if there is a big building and wealth.

Many of you know that I have been getting married for the past few days. I did not have a relationship or a preference before. But many people liked me. I have a teacher in particular, with whom I have known for the past 13 years. It is like a close relationship. I share almost everything with him. He was choosing me for his sister's daughter. I came to know this after I joined the university. Then he told me one day. His sisters are very rich, sir is also very rich. But to be honest, I have no greed to be rich or have no desire to marry into a rich family since childhood. I think that real happiness is in a humble family. Then I thought a lot about the matter, then I decided not to marry sir's sister's daughter. For some reason, I felt that I did not have real peace there. Then suddenly the discussion of my marriage started, I mean I had decided to get married after thinking about many aspects. Then I told my brother-in-law about it, he told me at my house. Then suddenly I remembered a girl. I know her from before, she was my student. She used to study with me when she had her diploma.

Everything is written by God,, I suddenly felt like sending him a message on February 12th. After that, we talked for two days, then suddenly he told me that he liked me for many years. But he couldn't dare to say it. Later, I also felt like thinking about it. Then I thought about him for several days. Then I felt like thinking that maybe I would be better off if I married him. And he is much better and polite than I thought. Then I told him to tell me at his house, since I am still unemployed and studying. If her family agrees, then I will tell my family. He dared to tell me at her house, since the distance between our two houses was not far, that's why they found out about me in detail within a day and informed their decision that they agreed. Now if my family agrees, we will talk. To be honest, there is so much talk, but, I was still not looking at the girl's face directly. I was only looking at her in pictures. But suddenly, I felt like I had a different feeling towards her. When I told my brother-in-law about the matter, he talked to her family and went to see the girl. I had already taken a picture of the girl and sent it to her house. Then they wanted to see the girl directly without any investigation. And I only knew a little about the girl, I did not know about her family. Actually, I only wanted the person I was going to marry to be good, seeing the family is of no use to me. Because I have no greed for wealth.

Later, everyone in our house liked it and fixed the wedding date. My marriage was fixed in just 5 days. I never imagined that everything would be fixed so quickly. It is said that the one whose forehead is written on his forehead will come alone. Maybe that is the case in my case. But I left all the decisions to Allah Almighty. I was telling Allah Almighty that He should give me what is best for me. And I never judge anyone by their appearance. And I was even more surprised that a family agreed to give a girl to an unemployed boy like me. Anyway, everything finally got fixed. After the marriage was fixed, I went home from Dhaka and we met for the first time in a halal manner. Even before she came to study with me, the relationship was student-teacher. But now it is on the other side. When we met, I felt quite different, she even brought me a flower, where I was supposed to give her flowers, she gave it to me. That day I saw her face directly.

Actually, I still couldn't believe it, my marriage with her was fixed. But for some reason I felt that I would be very happy with her. And the biggest surprise was that she agreed to hold my hand in my unemployed life, where people don't want to come even after seeing success, and she kept me company in my unemployed life too. Anyway, I hope I can spend my whole life well with her. Actually, if I wanted, I could easily marry a rich girl, many offers were coming, but I wanted someone who would understand me, understand my situation and would always be by my side in my happiness and sorrow. But I am very happy to have her. Everyone pray for me. And the above writings may not match your personal opinions. But remember this, whoever keeps me company in your jobless or empty pocket, he will never leave you.

I shared some of my feelings with you. Everyone stay well and healthy. I will see you again with a new post of mine.