Seeing today's headline, you might be wondering, what is it that suddenly I am comparing education with destruction? You will find out the reason for this a little later. If you look at the current world, you will see that all the problems, all the immoral acts or the beginning of destruction start with the hands of educated people. In fact, you have to understand that whose fault is it, not the education or the method in which I am being educated. Is it because many people are like this because they did not get family education, or because of the spread of institutional education? In fact, it goes over many of our heads. Many people say that everyone should do whatever they want, and everyone should not listen to everything. But imagine that you have wasted most of your life educating your child or someone in your family, you have buried their hobbies, but if you know that he has cheated you, indulged in various immoral acts in the name of education, or does not understand the real meaning of education, then the family, country, or nation will not benefit from it, but rather it will cause harm. That is why we should give our children a good family education before educating them so that they do not indulge in any immoral activities.

Let me tell you a real example of this, I am the assistant director of a student hostel of Optimum Coaching and Guide in Ghazipur. There are about 90 students in our hostel who are being coached for duet admission. That means they will take the university entrance exam. Where admission means studying hard day and night with sacrifice. I myself was going through this admission life for two consecutive years. That is why I understand how difficult and sacrificial it is. Getting a chance in an engineering university is not that easy. The admission exam is coming up in 2/3 months. That is why everyone in the mess is spending a very busy time with their studies. But even in the midst of this, some boys are disobedient and cannot be controlled in any way. We are three directors in a hostel, and even then sometimes we struggle to control the students. For the past few weeks, the mess had been patrolled a little more, because we suspected that some boys in the mess were misbehaving a little.

One night, at 12 o'clock, suddenly our head director went to the roof and saw three boys sitting together doing something, the director said, "Brother, we are sitting like this." Then we became suspicious about the matter, what were they doing on the roof at a time when everyone was sleeping or spending time at the table studying. After some time, my roommate and I went to their room. We went and saw what those three were doing in the room, and there was a smell coming from the room. I asked what the smell was, and said, "Brother, it's nothing." My suspicions grew even more, because I smelled marijuana. This time, at 1 o'clock in the morning, the boy's roommate called me and said, "Brother, come to our room and find something," while the others had gone out. I went and saw some things in a packet. I opened it and saw marijuana. What a shame. From a place like a residential building of an educational institution, how dare they bring drugs into the room, with our directors' eyes wide open. Where parents send them with so many dreams, that they will get admission and get a chance at university, making their parents' faces shine.

Since it is a residential school, we do not want any other boy to be harmed or his studies to be ruined because of one boy. That is why we have decided to cancel the seats of both of them and throw them out of the residential school. If we throw them out, others will also be a little scared, if they have bad habits, they will be dropped. Actually, what were they supposed to do, and what are the boys doing at the present time? They take thousands of taka from home every month for their studies, but their parents do not even care, they are not studying with this money, they are working like destroying their lives. At the end of the day, if the addiction reaches a serious level, they do not even think about causing serious harm. However, we wanted to inform the families of the two boys, but at their request, we only threw them out of the residential school, we did not inform the family.

Now let's show another real picture. 4/5 days after the above incident, at around 11:50 pm, I was coming from outside to have tea. My room is on the fourth floor, after suddenly going up to the second floor, why did I feel like I had a boy and come and see him. That is why I entered a two-story block. I went and saw a room locked but the lights were on inside. I went and knocked but they didn't open. Later someone from another room said, director brother is coming, open it, he didn't believe it either. He was wondering why the director would come at such a late hour. Later, after asking him many times, he opened it. Then I saw 4 of them sitting in a circle in the room playing cards or whatever they call them. I was angry just seeing that. But since I am a resident and I am responsible, I can't do anything if I want. There are rules, so I asked them what these are, later they apologized, I took a picture and wrote the room number with the name. So that I could inform the main director. Later I brought the cards with me.

What we understood from this incident is that the education system of the society is actually damaged from within. The main reason is proper family education and parents abandon their children, do not look for the right way. And the biggest problem is this smart phone and social media. Actually, the purpose of today's post is to explain that we are not giving our children the right education and are destroying them. Currently, 90% of students who study from outside are involved in various types of addictions. If this cannot be curbed, then our future society is on the path of destruction. I have expressed my opinions from my own experience in all the discussions. No one should take anything in a bad way. I hope we can raise our children with awareness. Everyone will be well and healthy. See you again with a new post.