sanc4: Share your thoughts about MOTHER

Assalamu Alaikum and good day to all. Hope you are all well and healthy. Today, after many days, I have come to talk to our friends on this beautiful blogging platform about a very emotional and deep topic. We discuss so many things in our busy lives, but do we find time to think deeply about the most important person in our lives?

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How much do we really understand the person who can forget all his intense pain and smile for a moment after hearing the first cry of a child? "Mother" — a word with just one letter, but no measure has been created to measure its depth till date. When we are very young, our entire world is built around our mother. But as we grow older, that familiar world gradually disappears from our sight due to our mechanical busyness and the noise around us.

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I remember a childhood memory very well. The night before the exam, when I was sitting at the study table, my mother would come and stroke my head. She would sit next to me with a cup of hot tea or a piece of fruit. Back then, it seemed like a very normal thing, all mothers do this. But today, when I feel lazy to pour myself a glass of water and drink it after a tiring day at work, I understand how much selfless love and patience was hidden behind those nights of staying awake and sitting by my side. Mothers are not superhuman, they too are tired, unwell, and reluctant to wake up. Yet, according to an unwritten rule, they wake up first and go to bed last every day. These sacrifices happen so silently that we often consider them very natural or their 'responsibility'.

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Our society has put mothers in a strange position. We love to praise mothers as goddesses or symbols of sacrifice, but how much do we value their desires, reluctance, or fatigue as ordinary flesh-and-blood human beings? Society always wants a mother to be 'perfect'. If a mother takes some time for herself, if she wants to do some of her hobbies, she often gets labeled as neglect. However, we often forget this simple truth that besides being a mother, she is an independent person, she has her own entity. We should create a mindset to remove these silent social sufferings of mothers and not consider their sacrifice as just a 'mandatory duty'.

None of us have the ability to repay our mother's debt with any worldly things, and she does not need to. Because a mother never loves in the hope of reciprocation. However, what we can do is to give our mother at least a little mental peace. Make her understand that she is not just a means of taking care of us, but her own likes and dislikes are equally important to us. In this busy mechanical life, it is very important to talk to your mother at least for a few minutes every day, and ask her how her day went.

What was the best moment you all spent with your mother? Or what are your thoughts about your mother? Don't forget to comment. Stay well, stay healthy. Thank you.