I often find myself thinking that the things I learned in books were only useful for business or jobs, but the things life taught me were only useful for living life. So, the things I learned in books were not for life, but were only limited to jobs etc.

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Life is a big and tough with full of challenges and it keeps teaching you new lessons every day. I also had a similar experience. When something happened to me, I will say this much: you should not trust people you don't know at all. And you should not trust every person who calls you their friend but then takes advantage of you. People often get carried away by their appearance and say that this person spends a good time with me. So this person is my friend, but in reality, its not like that.

“What experience helped you learn this lesson? Please describe it..”

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A few months ago, I met a friend from my school who we were very good friends in school time, but after growing up, I forgot her, she forgot me. Suddenly, we met in the market, we exchanged numbers. I didn't recognize her, but she recognized me. Well, the conversation continued. She asked about my work and I mentioned Steemit. She told me that it's okay. I will help you. I will tell you a job. So, drop me your CV etc. and I will get you a job there. I told her that it's okay. I also got hope. I thought that maybe she came into my life as an angel. But when she called me for the interview, I was waiting for the whole day. She came to me after such a long time. She comforted me a lot and I was very happy that my friend was helping me., she told me that you have to send 20 thousand rupees so that your work can be done. I did. As soon as I sent her 20 thousand rupees, she blocked me and after that her number is also blocked and I don't know where she lives, my school friend but I trusted her after that we were going to meet at her house but she didn't even give me her home address and deceive me.

“How has this lesson changed your life. Or the way you make decisions today?."

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At first, this lesson was a very painful phase for me, in which I spent all my savings, while with this money I could have done a lot, I could have paid the rent of my house or I could have put very good rations in my house, but I trusted that maybe my friend would ease my difficulties, that is, those people who did work on a Steemit are still worried about rate of steem they must be looking for some other way, just like I keep looking for that maybe my life will change and the situation will get better at home. When I thought for myself, I thought wrongly, but after that, this lesson affected my life in such a way that I started thinking that trusting every person is not right at all and that person is definitely your friend or not. After learning to trust yourself, of course you can earn a little, earn more, but earn it with your own hands and with your safety. If you trust someone, no one will do anything except betray you.

“What advice would you like to give others based on your experience?.”

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First of all, I will not at all expect everyone else to do what I did and have similar problems in their lives. Secondly, if anyone wants to ask me a advise, I will give you only one piece of advice: you have to set your own boundaries And you have to think about who deserves to be in your friend zone. You have to be careful that we are meeting after many years. Human nature can change. Apart from changing human nature, do not trust easily on anyone. Do not make anyone your friend or sibling except your siblings and your parents. Do not think that the next person who comes into your life has come as a messiah.Rather, remember that if there are good people in this world, there are also bad people. If such people are going to benefit you, then those who are going to harm you. So take care of yourself because no one else will ever come to take care of you.

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