"SC-S31/W4-Movie Magic |Movies that challenge society (Yeh Aag Kb Bhujhegi)
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Hello My Steemain Friends ,
Today I am writing about an interesting Steemit Engagement Challenge S31- W4: which is all time my favourite topic ""Movie Magic| |Movies that challenge society" this amazing challenge organised by @ruthjoe
Watch a movie that speaks of injustice, challenging a norm or a culture and respond to the following Questions |
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For today's competition, I was required to watch a film based on a social issue—specifically one that conveys a message against injustice. In my opinion, the absolute best film for this competition is "Yeh Aag Kab Bujhegi"
centers on the social evil of the dowry system, depicting how demands for dowry are made—demands which the bride's father dutifully fulfills. However, midway through the wedding ceremony, further demands for dowry are raised; left utterly helpless, the father is forced to remove his turban—a symbol of his honor—and place it at the feet of the groom's father.
The film portrays the poignant moment when the bride—still dressed in her wedding finery—witnesses her father's utter helplessness; she immediately calls off the wedding. In stark contrast, the film also depicts another scenario: a young woman gets married, but when her father fails to provide the dowry, she is burned to death. Consequently, her father embarks on a legal battle in court to secure justice and vindication for his daughter.
I first watched this movie during my childhood. As soon as I learned of this competition, no other film even crossed my mind; this was the only movie that came to my remembrance. I recall that when I watched it as a child, it terrified me deeply and left a profound and lasting impact on my psyche.
| Movie Name | Yeh Aag Kb Bhujhegi |
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| Actor | Sunil Dutt and Kabir Bedi |
| Actress | Rekha , Sheeba, Bindu |
| Release Date | 19 April 1991 |
| Director | Sunil Dutt |
| Producer | Sunil Dutt |
| Music | Ravindra Jain |
What social issue did the movie highlight? |
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This film effectively exposes the social scourge of the dowry system, illustrating how individuals consumed by greed for dowry—lusting after money, wealth, and material comforts—will go so far as to burn a young woman to death. They harbor no fear in their hearts; blinded by their avarice for money, their very humanity has perished. They render the bride's father utterly helpless, threatening to halt the wedding proceedings unless their demands are met—even forcing him to place his turban at their feet and beg for mercy with folded hands. This behavior is utterly shameful, both from a societal and a personal standpoint.
The film highlights the arrogance displayed by the groom's family—specifically the father—who act as though the mere fact of having fathered a son elevates them to the status of a deity. In their insatiable greed, these dowry-seekers remain oblivious to the suffering of their fellow human beings. They forget that they, too, are human; what shred of humanity remains in burning to death someone's innocent, flower-like daughter?
Did it change how you see this issue? |
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Absolutely; a shift has occurred where the hatred towards those greedy for dowry has intensified. It is my firm belief that anyone intent on taking dowry should openly declare their greed—stating exactly how much money they require. They should say, "I will not marry—nor will I 'sell' my son—for a single rupee less than this amount." If a deal is being struck—if it is a commercial transaction—then it should be conducted properly and transparently. In this context, relationships and human decency hold no value; it is purely a matter of bargaining. So, go ahead—put a price tag on your son and sell him off properly. However, do not harm someone's daughter. If you do not wish to marry her, then simply don't; that is the most sensible approach—to declare upfront, "We will not marry our son to a girl from a poor family." That would be the most perfect solution.
Instead, I see this issue that people first go through with the marriage—often accepting a smaller sum initially—only to torment the girl later. What is the girl's fault? How is she expected to demand money from her own father? She silently endures this pain, clinging to the hope that perhaps things will improve—that maybe, just maybe, the situation will get better.
Watching this scenario unfold—whether in a film or in real life—or observing the people who engage in such acts, fills me with immense rage. The day a girl finally turns around and fights back—the day she begins to make her tormentors pay—that is the day the dowry system will truly come to an end.
How is this theme discussed this week relevant today? |
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Indeed, social issues of this nature are absolutely worthy of discussion. Engaging in such conversations helps the children in our families and households understand how they ought to conduct themselves and behave within society. When a girl leaves everything behind to join her in-laws' home, she should be welcomed with open arms—whether by the bride's family or the groom's.
Both families must treat one another with mutual respect and dignity. Tormenting a girl—or worse, taking her life—merely for the sake of a little money is utterly reprehensible. If you are in need of money, earn it yourself and fulfill your own requirements. Demanding dowry is a criminal offense, and the government must enact stringent laws to combat it—laws that instill fear in the minds of dowry-seekers, deterring them from committing such acts.
Those who demand dowry are, in essence, nothing more than beggars—individuals who, despite appearing respectable and sitting in the comfort of their homes, are merely begging for alms under the guise of dowry. This is an incredibly sensitive issue—one in which a father's entire life's earnings, along with the very life and future of his daughter, are placed at stake. When a person regards another's daughter as his own, he will never commit such an act.
I want to invite my friends to take part in this contest: , @suboohi , @chant , @lirvic"
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These are hushed topics discussed in society. Many people don't talk about it and even when they find the system oppressive, some prefer to turn a blind eye. "It's tradition," they say. So, they uphold the one thing that destroys them.
What I'm about to say might hurt a lot of feelings, but I guess it's time we openly take a stance on this one. Particularly the issue of "trading" sons and daughters in exchange for real human connection — in my culture, it's the groom who pays the bride price (not dowry), you get.
In many places where dowry and bride price are practiced, we see humans get so greedy. Some see it as a poverty alleviation strategy or get-rich-quick scheme. So they place their entire human problems on the suitors. Others go to the extreme. I remember reading about bride burning and cringing at the thought that someone could go that far to prove a point.
Humans get married to procreate and sustain humanity. Others get married for companionship and genuine connection.
I believe no one does the other a favour by getting married. Hence, partners should be treated equally. Not bought or compensated, regardless of how romantised the idea of exchanging humans for money and livestocks might be.
Why do I emphasis on this?
Some of these people are young and as such lack much economic means. Some of these families end up spending so much to raise their kids to marriageable age. The young adults deserve to be allowed to build their future and invest the money they have into profitable businesses that will help them sustain their new family.
Managing a home and catering for children is no mean job. So it's completely insensitive to render any party penniless before they even get to do the real work — which is managing a family.
I would have said we scrap out bride price and dowry, but I know very few individuals are ready for this conversation.
The most important thing as you've pointed out is that "families must treat one another with mutual respect and dignity". This is super essential.
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Thankyou @suboohi .
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Welcome to Steemit challenge season 31| movie Magic week4
Interesting selection. The movie has highlighted a very serious matter.
Your effort is appreciated!
You have not shared your entry on Twitter which is a part of the rule.