SteemAlive Presents: "Nightmare" What was the worst thing that ever happened to you? (60 Steem Prize)
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The contest - Nightmare
Nightmares are scarry and we do not love them. However, we do not quickly forget the hardest blows life has dealt us. So in this contest, we want to read about your worst experience in life so far. Was it the death of a loved one, loss of life savings, a terrible life-changing accident, chronic illness, betrayal by a trusted friend, etc. Whatever it was, we want to read your story. Be as detailed as you can remember.
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The worst nightmare ever that I had experienced was the betrayal of loved one. We planned our lives together for the whole two years. With much spending, calls and texts, only for her to left me at the mercy of comfortable words of my friends and family members. It really change my views on issues of emotional needs of someone, a mate because if one like that to me that can just turn it down when you are fully ready to take it to next step... Steemians, it is very painful and I don't even wish it for my enemies.. #twopercent #nigeria
It can really be very painful and unforgettable. But you still need to move because broken relationship is far better than broken marriage. Be careful next time in your choice, be prayerful about it too. @sammylinks
#twopercent #nigeria
I really learnt a significant lesson then... I pray , not to experience it again
Hola como estas, es muy triste eso que te paso y fuerte pero de estas experiencias uno aprende y la vida continua, eso nos causa dolor porque la traición es algo que nos marca pero como tu dices hay que dar otros pasos y fortalecernos.
Sabes es triste lo que te paso y se lo que sentistes porque me paso algo similar pero a veces cuando las cosas pasan es por algo es porque Dios no quiere a esa persona para nosotros porque no nos conviene.
Dios nos tiene algo mejor en la vida.
#onepercent #venezuela
This is a good and interesting topic and I love it. Loosing someone very close and special to you is like a knife been drawn into the heart. My worst moment in life was loosing mg grandpa to the cold hands of dead. Full entry coming soon
#twopercent #cameroon #affable
Am really sorry for this great loss. Life can really hit us hard when we least expect it. God will continue to give you the strength to heal from this really painful loss. Our hearts are with you @tenguhatanga
Thank you @focus now. We continue to live on while God handles the rest
So sorry about your loss dear @tenguhatanga, loosing someone too close to us can be very devastating. But our father in heaven is always ready to give us comfort.
Thanks my dear and God knows the reason for everything. In him we trust
Of course dear @tenguhatanga, he perfectly understand everything and that is why he has told us the reason why these terrible things are happening. Read about it from your personal copy of the holy scriptures at 1 John 5:19 , Genesis 3:19 and Ecclissiastics 9:11. He has also given us hope out of there problems. Will you like to read about it?
#twopercent #nigeria
Yes I will definitely read it that passage so to be soaked with hope for the future. Not all is lost now as we may look at it from our human sight
#twopercent #cameroon #affable
Exactly dear @tenguhatanga, all hope is not lost.
Loss of someone dear to us is a big tragedy as they have created a space no one else can fill, but i pray you receive more grace to bear the loss
Awwwnnn....!
I'm so sorry about your loss dearie, death of a loved one is very terrible. It hurts badly, but we must learn to be courageous in difficult situations.
Be strong my dear friend, God knows the best for you.
Sorry for your loss @tenguhatanga. The death of someone close to us is a big vacuum that can't be close and a irreplaceable loss.. Whoever can help us in the exact ways, they do help us. But, believe on resurrection hope when we will see them again
What a wonderful topic! This is so amazing. I am glad to make my entry.
The worst thing that has ever happened to me is the death of my parents.
Although I am the last child to my mother, I hoped to grew up in the company of them. But sad to say that they were already growing old and unable to care for me. My dad soon was struck by stroke which kept him incapacitated for more that 10 years until his death in 2003.then I was in junior secondary. I was shattered and devastated. Well, I accepted it because there was nothing I could do about it. My mum, even though she was old as well, became my source of encouragement. I was regularly traveling home to visit her stay with her each school vacation. She will always carry me on her laps no matter how frail she was then. After some time, she too had the same problem that my dad had. But hers was able to be controlled. But she couldn't do much but to be cared for. Even when I got married, she only managed to be taken to the venue. Though she was still alive till my last child but she died in 2013. Chai, very horrible. I couldn't control myself. I nearly lost my senses. I there and then became someone without parent. I don't usually like to relate this but all the same. I think I should be getting over it by now. I thank Jehovah for his promises of comfort and resurrection in his word the Bible.
#twopercent #nigeria
So sorry for your loss @ ngoenyi. It is very painful to witness the death of our loved ones like our parents. All the memories made during their lifetimes just cease and their faces can't be behold again. I also felt such pain too because of the death of my father. But, like what you said, our hope lies to Jehovah and He comforts us all... We don't mourn like people without faith too. Jah help us to bear it all
Hola como estas, es fuerte pasar por este trance de la perdida de un familiar y mas si es la perdida de un hijo que es todo para nosotros pero Dios nos fortalece porque ellos pasan a una mejor vida y lo mejor que uno puede hacer es buscar consuelo en Dios que el nos ayuda a superar todas las cosas que nos pasan.
#onepercent #venezuela
Hi @sheath, thank you so much for your words of consolation. It is actually too painful to loose someone in death. But, t I take solace in the Bible's promise of a resurrection (Acts 24:15). I so much appreciate your concern.
#twopercent #nigeria
@ngoenyi. Thank you our able leader, I can't wait to read your entry
So sorry about your loss @ngoenyi, you have to be strong and make them proud by doing all good no matter the challenges you face. Thanks for sharing
Loss of both parents should be some of the hardest problems to face anyone. Jehovah the God of all comfort will comfort you. Who knows, your story might even be a source of comfort for many others. Keep getting stronger everyday, we will continue to support you. @ngoenyi
@focusnow , you are a great support already. I can always count on you. Thank you my able admin.
Sorry for your lost ma'am, just keep believing and God will do great things in your life.
#twopercent #nigeria
This is indeed a sad story , lossing my parents is something i dont know if i can bear or forget in a hurry, i pray i dont experience that until they are 130years when i have enjoyed them and they have enjoyed their children too,
I am sorry you have to go through all of that
My dear, no one prays for death but when it comes, we draw comfort in knowing that the Almighty Jehovah is there to comfort us. I also pray that your parents live longer. Thank you for your comfort.
Amen to your prayers ,
Thank you
Loss of one's parent is really devasting. Take heart.
So sorry about the lost, God always knows the best in every circumstances, he will always prove himself to his people, it is not a big deal for him just keep on trusting in the lord, take heart o.
@ngoenyi, such a great loss. It is so difficult to accept most times. Loosing a single parent can be so heart breaking come to talk of both. Thank God they have come of age before then, but we always love to have them around anyway.
Take heart and be strong for your own children. And try working on your mind to get over it.
#twopercent
#nigeria
sorry for your family Life continues despite everything. and you gotta be good for your children .
@svm038, thank you very much for your concern. I will take your word to heart
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It seems you are a witness Ma. May Jehovah comfort you for your loss
Aunque me han sucedido muchas cosas que yo podría decir que fueron muy tristes, les voy a contar la que más me ha marcado y la que me ha conllevado a comprender lo que soy hoy en día. Nada sucede por error, todo tiene una razón de ser. Lo más sentido que me ha pasado fueron los ataques de bulling suscitado en mi infancia y parte de mi adolescencia, según era extremadamente fea ante los ojos de los demás, era muy delgada, con piel oscura, cabellos afros y dientes pronunciados... en esa época sentí mucho dolor, las personas fueron muy crueles conmigo e hicieron que mi autoestima se desmoronara. En el cololegio los chicos que yo no conocía me gritaban a lo lejos palabras muy ofensivas, muchas veces me esperaban al salir de clase para promulgar sus ataques con hirientes palabras. En la calle cuando caminaba con mis familiares, amigas o conocidos, los que iban en los carros lanzabas sus palabras molestas, yo solo bajaba la cabeza apenada, deseaba llegar a mi casa para desplegar mi ira y soltar mis lágrimas a solas en mi habitación. Todo esto conllevó a que sintiera mucha envidia hacia las mujeres bonitas, deseaba todo lo que tenían las demás chicas y las imitaba constantemente, y lo que fue aun peor para mí, es que la soberbia y la vanidad se apoderó de todo mi ser... Las personas no saben lo que se siente cuando se pasa por todas estas emociones. Por lo mismo nunca me di la oportunidad de conocerme como realmente era; aceptarme se me era muy difícil... Hoy en día, ya en mi adultes; y aunque no fue nada fácil y gracias a las oraciones constantes, he aprendido a valorarme, aceptar mi físico tal cual es y sobretodo a conocerme, a conocer esa esencia que siempre había estado allí, a conocer esa esencia que tanto yo oculté...
Hola como estas, es fuerte lo que pasastes en la infancia los niños siempre haciendo bulling, yo pase por eso también y sabes nadie es feo en la vida porque Dios es nuestro creador y todos somos adorables solo que hay niños o adultos que piensan que son mejores que uno y no es así, todos tenemos cualidades y fortalezas que nos hacen personas únicas e increíbles.
#onepercent #venezuela
Así es amiga, pienso lo mismo... Saludos...
Y hoy en día todavía se ve mucho esa situación que de no atenderse a tiempo puede llegar a mayores. Por tratarse del adolescente que aún requiere mucha orientación y consejo, está aún en etapa vulnerable. Por lo menos empezaste a aceptarte tal cual eres que es lo más importante y de seguro no fue fácil porque lleva el tiempo necesario pero es posible superarlo. Muy buena entrada. Te deseo una feliz noche.
Así es, los niños o adolescente tienen que hablar esto si pasan por una situación igual o por lo menos desahogarse con alguien, sino va hacer muy difícil de solventar solo... Es lo que me pasó a mí... yo callé y creo que por eso se me fue muy difícil superarlo.. Gracias @alegnita por tu comentario...
De nada. 😄 Gusto en conocerte a través de este concurso.
Today I will summarize what could be called: "The worst nightmare".
Well, on December 29, 2017, I went to bed very quietly, but there was a moment in the night when I woke up and could not sleep. After having a good time in that situation, I fell asleep without a doubt, because I was a little tired.
At that time I had a very strange dream, because it was that I was with some scout friends in an activity, (I belong to the Scouts Association of Venezuela). It was something strange and complicated to explain, there were many people and every time I saw more places that I did not know. Until there came a time when we were crossing a bridge, but it was more like a recreational activity and we had to cross it on a Mayan, if we let go we fell into the water. Luckily in the dream I passed by, but a friend of mine fell into the water with burnt oil, and so did my sister, the problem was that I never saw my friend again in the dream.
I woke up a little scared, but I didn't give it much thought.
But ...., I explain, this happened on December 29 to 30 of the same month, on January 1 of the following year I receive the news that an uncle of mine had an accident and died.
The coincidence is that he had the same reason as my friend, and more than that he was all covered with oil, because the car exploded and got burned. At the time of what happened I didn't analyze it, but at the time it ended up being a nightmare for me.
I hope that @luiyi-22,@leyxi209 and @castor27 will join this interesting challenge. Greetings @cachetes-27🐽💕
@cachetes-27. This is really a bad dream that later came to pass. Really sorry for the loss of your uncle. Please be strong and have courage, you will surely overcome the loss with time.
Thank God, I'm over it!
Thank you for reading me!
Saludos @cachetes-27🐽💕
Hello steemians of this community, here is my entry for this contest
My entry
Read and learn from my story.
Kind Regards
@bright-obias
Hola como están, estuve analizando que era lo que iba a escribir porque tantas cosas que me han pasado hay unas superadas pero otras aun en el corazón.
Pues lo que a mi me paso no se lo deseo a nadie, comienza cuando me gradué yo tenia un novio desde que estudie en la universidad y el me apoyaba en todo al graduarme comencé a trabajar en el área de salud y bueno a veces el trabajo a veces era muy absorbente pero siempre estaba pendiente del.
Un día le dije que nos casáramos y el me dice que si yo muy emocionada comencé a preparar todo las invitaciones, la iglesia, el civil en fin todo hasta mi madre me iba a realizar el vestido de matrimonio yo estaba muy feliz.
Hasta que un mes antes del matrimonio me fue a buscar a mi casa y mi invito el desayuno y me llevo al trabajo y antes de bajarme me dijo termino contigo no quiero seguir contigo.
Eso me dolió, me dejo muy mal triste a tal extremo que entre en depresión y saben me costo salir de esa depresión porque teníamos 8 años de novios y nunca me dijo porque me dejo, pero eso marca a uno.
Después de que mi familia me ayudo ahora pienso Dios me libro de algo por eso no quiso que ese matrimonio se realizara.
Este mi triste historia que de esto hay enseñanza para mi.
Hola @rosanita. Tu historia me recuerda prácticamente lo mismo que le pasó a una gran amiga mía, muy cercana por cierto. Ella es única, especial y querida. Es difícil conseguirse a una personita así porque es adventista y tiene sentimientos tan nobles y bellos que cualquiera se enamoraría de ella y no le haría lo que le hizo un ex novio. Es más, nunca le he conocido una grosería o mala actitud. Quedaron en plan de comprometerse para matrimonio o al menos eso ella creía. Pienso que el debió ser claro desde un principio y decirle que no tenía pensado casarse con ella. Más bien de repente le dijo que no le dió motivo alguno para que se pusiera a organizar todo (había comprado hasta los adornos para las mesas de invitados). Sinceramente nunca se supo su cambio de actitud pero realmente eso se dió cuando él se estaba preparando para irse a Brasil y ayudarse por la situación (mi amiga incluso lo ayudó a preparar la maleta sin saber aún con lo que le iba a salir). Ya después a la hora de la chiquita, eso de verdad que le cayó como balde de agua tan fría que le costó un tiempo superar eso. Su ex suegra y cuñada le tuvieron que aconsejar para que se olvidara de él y gracias a Dios está ahora con un chico que de verdad la quiere con todas las de la ley. 🙂
Es bueno saber que situaciones como esas sí se pueden superar siempre y me alegra que lo hayas logrado. Sólo se necesita voluntad y disciplina para ello que lo mejor es lo que pasa y de seguro no era para ti, o mejor dicho, tú no le merecías y te esperaba algo mucho mejor más adelante. Saludos y Feliz noche.
Waoo si, pensé que eso pasaba solo en las telenovelas... Y me imagino el dolor y las ilusiones; definitivamente hay cosas que nos marcan de por vida... Pero Dios sabe lo que hace, y de seguro esta experiencia te ha formado como mujer y en lo espiritual; porque es lo que me a pasado a mí... Saludos
@rosanita
Esas cosas son dolorosas, a veces es difícil recuperarse. Lo importante es darse cuenta de que no es culpa de uno. O de nadie. Las cosas pasan así porque es lo mejor. Por ejemplo, si te casabas con esa persona lo que era seguro que pasara es que fueran infelices, ya que él no quería hacerlo, por eso terminó contigo. Realmente, aunque hubieses querido saber el por qué lo hizo, realmente no era relevante. Fue lo mejor para ti y para él. Así de sencillo.
#onepercent
#venezuela
Very nice thing, of course, if you can participate in this contest, thank you in advance
Life may be said to be unfair sometimes and my worst life experience so far still remains grim in my head. It's something I never talk about, something I never will. However I'd go ahead and alternate on the scale of nightmares and pick one I'm comfortable talking about.
The day I felt alone for the first time in the world...
Growing up as a child, making friends was something I never gave due consideration. It had always been my brother and I against the world. We spent about six years in our former residence, never had a friend for a week. Never related with anyone and our bond tightened the more.
Let's quit the "story of my life part , shall we"
It came the day he was to leave for college. I was happy but having mixed feelings. I skipped school and lessons that week in order to follow him to his college. I only believed we went there to fill some paperwork and sign some documents. Little did I know he would be leaving that week. I spent about three days with him and the time came to go back home.
I hurriedly jumped in the front seat as I knew it was his seat and I wanted to tease him a bit. I was surprised when he didn't enter the car with us. Last thing I remember was him waving us goodbye.
I was depressed the next week, refused to speak to anybody at all.
This might not be the nightmare story you're expecting but it's definitely one that hit me and one of the ones I'm comfortable talking about....
#nigeria
The bond between the both of you was strong i guess, but all the same life continues
losing your brother to the boarding house is a very sad experience. It was one of the causes of my worst nightmare.
@doppley, I can relate the feeling of being separated from a bond that had been built over the years. It is hard to accept. It is like a husband relocating to a farther country and leaving the wife behind. She will miss him a lot. But I guess you later got over those feelings.
#twopercent
#nigeria
The sars revolution in Nigeria (My Nightmare)
https://steemit.com/hive-167622/@henryglowz/entry-my-worst-nightmare-sars-revolution-07-10-2020
Go read and leave a comment.
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