SEC-S30W6: People who motivate | Sodiq Ogunjimi

The way I think and manage situations has been greatly shaped by someone in my life and that's my elder brother. He is not the type of person who tries to demonstrate a point in every talk or speaks too frequently. Most of what he teaches really comes from how he lives his life every day rather than from drawn-out speeches.

That's us when we were very young, that image was taken with very small phone many years back

His composure and steadiness strike me as particularly commendable in trying times. He often stays grounded even if many people freak or grumble when circumstances do not turn out their way. He neither overlooks issues nor lets them rule him. Watching him over years made me understand that actual strength is not about screaming, but rather about remaining calm amid everything feeling doubtful.

Once in my life I felt entirely rooted. Things were not working as intended, and I had chosen which did not go well. Thinking on my errors caused me to lack self-assurance. It was annoying to begin to believe I wasn't advancing considerably.

Me

Though I did not speak frankly about it, he saw the transformation in me. One night he questioned what was going on. I laid everything out anticipating a lengthy diatribe or rebuke. Instead of rebuking me, he offered me a straightforward advice that followed with me.

He stated, "You do not have to fix everything today. Concentrate only on the following appropriate step.

Initially, it sounded too easy—almost like it would not make a difference. As I considered it later, though, I realized I had felt overloaded because I had been attempting to fix everything at once.

I therefore altered my approach. Stopping thinking about the whole picture for a while, I concentrated on minor activities. One stage at a time. Gradually, things began to arrange themselves once more and I grew in confidence.

My approach to difficulties was changed by that experience.

My brother

He inspires me not because he is flawless but rather because he is honest, consistent, and pragmatic. His perspective on life has shown me that tiny, continuous steps ahead rather than spectacular actions propel development.

And that is something I bear with me all days.

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