You have shared a very beautiful and realistic point. We should indeed help those in need, but at the same time, we must be sensible and cautious. Not everyone who asks for help necessarily deserves it, so we should make decisions based on the circumstances. The most important thing is that we should not lose our humanity and kindness because of the wrong attitudes of a few people. The message of "Be Kind Anyway" is very inspiring. Your thinking is commendable.