SNA Contest Week 148: Problem Solving — Family and Relationships

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Hope you all are well and happy in your life. May Allah bless you all with health, happiness and success. Amen.

Today I am participating in this beautiful activity. The given questions are very interesting and close to reality as such problems are seen in many homes. I think many problems can be solved easily if family members try to understand each other and talk openly. I have selected two questions and am presenting my opinion on them.

A man refuses to provide for his family, leaving the responsibility for the wife alone since she has money. He fails to communicate with the wife because he thinks the wife should be submissive by talking to him first and is being disrespectful for that. The wife on the other hand refuses to feed him because he cares less about the family. What do you think the man or woman can do to amend their family's problems?

According to me, the main reason for this problem is that both are not talking to each other and are stuck on their own stubbornness. The husband thinks that since the wife has money, she should bear the family expenses, while the wife resents the husband's behavior and does not want to cooperate with him.

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In my view, the husband should understand his responsibilities. Taking care of the family is not only the wife's responsibility. If the wife is financially strong, it is good, but it does not mean that the husband should back down from his responsibilities. On the other hand, the wife should also not take such decisions in anger that will aggravate the problem further.

I think both of them should sit down and talk. One should listen to each other's complaints and find a solution together. When husband and wife respect each other and try to understand each other, the home environment also improves and the children also have a good influence.

A woman has more money than the husband and wants to change things in the house and live a stress free life, but the husband does not agree to this. He says the wife is spending money unnecessarily because she has the money and is doing things without consulting the husband. The wife can't buy a car even when she has the money because she must consult the husband for them to agree. What do you think the man or the woman should do?

According to me both need to understand each other in this matter. If the wife has her own money and wants to make some improvements in the house, there is nothing wrong with that. But if she takes every decision alone, the husband may feel bad.

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Similarly, the husband should not think that every decision will be made only by his will. If the wife wants to buy a car with her hard-earned money or buy something nice for the house, then her words should be given importance.

In my opinion, both should sit together and discuss such matters. Consultation is very important as it reduces misunderstandings. When both respect each other's opinionsopinions. Then decision making becomes easier. The home environment remains pleasant.

Conclusion

Finally I would like to say that love, respect and good communication are very important to make a family strong. Problems often arise.

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When people stop listening to each other. Many problems can be solved easily if we are patient and try to understand each other. I believe that trust, support and respect are the most important to make any relationship successful.

May Allah grant us all love, peace and blessings in our homes. Amen.

Friends, this is my participation. I hope you appreciate it. I look forward to reading your valuable feedback.

I am tagging my friends so they can also enjoy participating in this contest @kouba01 , @josepha and @jimiaera02 , @sduttaskitchen.

Stay positive, stay aware, and spread the goodness 💙
Allah Hafiz!

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