Popular Opinion — Be Accurate and Convincing

بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْمِ

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Warm greetings to all Steemians. I trust you are all progressing well and enjoying your time here. In this post I am pleased to contribute to the topic “Popular Opinion — Be Accurate and Convincing”. This challenges us to present our viewpoints with precision, strong reasoning and authenticity. My appreciation goes to @bossj23 sir for introducing an insightful and engaging subject.

This sentence may sound harsh and sentimental. In reality it reflects an unfair and exaggerated way of thinking. Calling all men "scum" and all women "snakes" based on one or a few bad experiences is not only wrong but also far from reality. There are all kinds of people in the world. Some deceitful, and some extremely sincere and loyal.

If we think honestly the problem is not gender but the character, training and intention of the person. There are many men who live up to their responsibilities, respect their relationships and stick to the truth. Likewise there are countless women who are trustworthy, true and loving. Can we all see the same thing based on just a few bitter experiences? Not at all.

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The real wisdom is to judge every man by his actions and behavior, not by his gender.

"Every person is not the same. Some give wounds. Well some heal those wounds."

The idea that "marrying a rich woman will bring equality in the home but lose respect" seems more like a social fear and misconception than a principled truth.

I am against this.

First respect is not about wealth. It is about behavior, training and mutual respect. If a man fears that a woman's financial strength will diminish his respect. The problem is not the woman's wealth but the thinking and insecurity of a man. A strong relationship is one where both see each other's success as a support rather than a threat.

Second financial independence in today's age is no longer the legacy of one gender. If a woman is rich or earns more. It does not mean that she will consider her husband inferior. Just as a rich man does not disrespect his wife in any situation. The real difference is personality not pockets.

However it is also true that if there is ego, competition or inferiority complex between the two. Then wealth can become a problem. Whether it is the man's or the woman's. Therefore the foundation of a successful marriage is trust, communication and mutual respect not who is richer.

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"The relationship is only strong where there are big hearts, not wealth. Where there is no competition. There is a passion to go along."

@steem4nigeria

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