Writing Contest/ July 27, 2026/ #sv-writing: Loneliness is my greatest strength.

My name is Maryam 86 from Pakistan.
How are you friends? Hope you are healthy and fit. I am also fine. Today I am participating in this competition "Writing Contest/ July 27, 2026/ #sv-writing:" Thank you for organizing this great competition. I am sharing my inner story with you all. I hope you all like my drawing today.Today I will share my story with you. which should be lived with patience and forbearance. When a person becomes alone. he starts liking solitude and patience. When a person breaks down from within. he needs to take care of himself.

Today I want to tell some real things about myself keeping in mind my real abilities. I want to tell something about myself. Time passes very quickly. When I look back at the past few years, it seems as if I was someone else and today I am someone else. The first change has come within me. Earlier I was very emotional. I used to cry over small things, and get nervous over big things. But life did not slap me. but explained me by showing me the situations. Now I have learned that the solution to every problem is not by shouting. but by thinking silently. I have become stronger now. The second change came in my thinking and dreams. Sometimes I used to think that life would be very easy.

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But responsibilities came. exams came. relationships were tested. All of these taught me that it is good to dream. but it is necessary to work hard for them. I kept myself busy with work. Writing. reading. learning — these became my refuge. When my heart is sad. wrapping myself in solitude was the biggest painful reality for me. so I pick up the pen. I pour out my pain in words and become lighter.

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Earlier I expected everything from everyone. Now I have learned to help myself first. I have learned to take care of myself even in solitude. I have become friends with myself. I strengthened myself from every pain. from every bad thing that used to hurt me. such as listening to people's words. tolerating people's attitudes. Life had become unbearable. but since I learned to be grateful and patient. I have become better than before. The biggest failure in my life was the one I had a lot of faith in. He broke my heart. which broke me from the inside. My heart was also scratched after being betrayed by a person I loved. A person becomes very crazy in love and thinks that I am him and he is the only one. There can be no third person between them. But now a third person can come. So a person is shattered and broken. As if he had a world, that world was destroyed and ruined. And then my God gave me patience and I taught myself to be happy.

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Not every path is easy while turning to people. It has to be made easy. I learned this by being patient. Yes the path was not easy. Many nights passed by, many times I broke. But each time I put myself back together. I was so shattered that my family couldn't handle me.
Today I am grateful for all these changes. They made me a woman who knows how to speak.who knows how to write. and who knows how to capture her special moments in words. A person is never the same as he was before. but some people force a person to change. Life is like an open book. I am very grateful to my Almighty God that he gave me so much patience. He gave me so much patience that now I don't feel bad about anyone. But one thing I have understood is that when a person gets cheated in love.a person starts learning and understanding many things. Change hurts. but it is what makes us better. And I proudly say that I have changed. For the better.

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