Ever since I was little, I knew I wanted to succeed no matter how hard it was going to be because failure was deleted from my mind as my first conscious act when I acquired full consciousness.
Even though I wanted to succeed by my hands, I knew it was not a go alone journey. A single individual might achieve success on his own in twelve years, but with the right person, he'll achieve it in four to six years.

Failure comes in many forms and has several definitions and it is up to each individual to determine what failure means to the individual. united we stand and divided we fall is a philosophy I have always kept in mind.
Of course, there are time when we have to go it alone for several reasons like when your other half fits into the category of a bad head or when going alone is the only option. In such cases, you just have to go it alone.

Even if we look at it from the Biblical angle, when God created man, He discovered that it was not good that man should be alone, so He made a help mate for man.
Even God knows that we need help, He didn't mandate excess wealth, He encouraged partnership to one's goals because He realized that two good heads were better than one.

Even in basic business life, we discover that business formed on partnerships most times have a higher chance of doing well or going farther than businesses formed on sole proprietorship and that is because when expertise are combined, we have a higher chance of getting success.

Now this is about love in relation to success. One thing we need to know is that a man who is fueled by emotions to succeed is like a car on nitro boost and the greatest emotion is love.
Sure, hate is also strong, but the thing is hate eats you up and eats your success too so you are left with nothing at the end of the day.

Hate also makes your drive to succeed higher, but it makes the person murderous. Why opt for hate when love is better? Why choose something that can destroy you when something that can reform you is available?
Being a lone wolf is a personal preference, but then being alone means in pursuit of money, you end up doing the job of two people.

No where is it written that you become a man when you do it all singly, neither is it written too that you become an independent woman when you can do everything alone.
You become a successful person (either man or woman) when you have the mindset to play well with others while exerting an air of being able to do it alone if and only if it becomes an absolute necessity.

My honest advice is for you to find the right person, the other good head and get to work on building your dreams together. If you already have your dreams on the way, be open to getting your other good head and work well with them to ensure a brighter future for everyone involved.

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