Getting over people

Some relationships end all of a sudden, and it's not even because we had a fight with them. They just end, they stop fitting in our lives and it ends over there. Sometimes we change and they are still the same or they change and we are still the same. The energy between the two shifts and it kind of creates and imbalance. We start moving in different directions and suddenly all that closeness starts fading. Sometimes there are some people who are the closest to us at one point of them and after the distance it becomes the most awkward scene to even have simple communication with them. The energy suddenly starts feeling heavy.

I have had such people in my life, we have been very good friends and no fights between us, but still we have parted and gone in different directions. It feels like their purpose in my life was that much limited and it's over so now they are gone. In the beginning I would always feel guilty, I felt like it was my fault that I could not keep up with them. But then with time I realized that's not the case, it's not always about someone's fault. You just outgrow people and move in different directions.

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We evolve and life keeps changing. As we evolve, there is lot of energy shift that keeps happening and with this energy shift people come and go in our life who are fitting in that moment. There are some people who I willingly let go, and some just happen by themselves. The ones who I willingly let go, it's not that I hate them. It's only because I am not able to resonate with them anymore. We are on different wavelengths and hence the frequency does not catch up between us.

If we are outgrowing someone, it's not always because someone is right or wrong. It's the moment where they do not fit in our lives and it's best to let go. Being honest is a form of respect towards your own self.

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