The things we keep clinging to all our life

Through our life we keep claiming things, putting our name on them, this and that belongs to me. But in a wink some day that name will be erased and a new name will be there on it. When my father-in-law was alive, he had a very tight control over the home. Everything had to happen his way, even moving a piece of furniture at home would be a stressful situation. He was not a bad person, but he just had control over things and everything was his. I barely spent some time with him, but my mother-in-law spent her life time with him and I could see how frustrated she was at that time. One day he was gone and all his things were still right there, now someone else's possession, and that person could do whatever with it.

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Then everything became of my mother-in-law and though she was not like him, at times I could see that years of suppression was now wanting freedom and authority and not completely but to an extent she also started showing similar behavior. Now she is also gone, and a little bit of it has flown in to me as well. Some time I tell my son, in my house I want things my way. Then suddenly I realize, it's just not my home, it's our home. Some personal things can be mine but otherwise it's a shared space. Even my personal things someday will be there for some one else, and it will become personal to that person. Like some of my mother-in-law things which I would not even dare to ask her, today belong to me.

Life is such; today what belongs to us, tomorrow will be someone else's, and our name will be completely erased from what we hold complete power on. Nothing that we have here goes with us and thank god for that, else the personal possessions would be never ending. Greed will follow up there as well. All of this just makes me marvel at the laws of the Universe and the spirit world.

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