100 100 real talk ! Thank you for boosting my morality. I grew up always thinking I had to go the extra mile in everything I do because I felt when people looked at me the could tell I was another fatherless child. So there was always this need to go above and beyond every call of duty. And for the longest this worked for me. I enjoyed the high praises, so much that when I finally did encounter a not so pleasant life experience with my son's father, I did everything in my power to hide behind this false identity of whom I created. I hide into the fan turned and directly flew the ish in my face. And as much as I wanted to blame this person for exposing the truth about me being human and have the very high potential of f'ing up once in the while , I knew I had to be exposed to not only bring me off my high horse but to also to guide my son along a life built on false foundations of self. Much love, thank you for sharing your nuggets!